Family

I would like to talk to you today about the

family. I was sitting with a young mother

who had just been told that her husband

had been killed in an accident. She began

to talk with me about the kind of relationship

they had shared. She said, “He kissed me

when he left this morning, and we were not

fighting. Oh, I am so glad.” 

 

Being a loving spouse takes time. Close

relationships do not just happen, and

strong family ties cannot wait for a

convenient time. Families are high on

God’s list, but our priorities tend to

push them low on our list, usually

squeezing them into left overtime after

our job and church work is done. Does

your husband know that you love him?

Or your wife?

 

Have you hugged your children today?

Love must be expressed. We can be full of

love for our partner, our children and

even God. But no one knows that until it

bubbles over and overflows. What things

bring her, or him, joy and pleasure? Be

honest with one another. Respect and

trust are important ingredients of

married love. We will never be perfect, but

we can be perfectly honest.

 

How is your relationship today with your

spouse, your children, and God?

Does it show?

 

Thank you, Father, for my family.

Show me ways I can love them more.

Amen.

No one has greater love than this: to lay down his life for his friends. You are my friends if you do what I command you. I do not call you servants anymore, because a servant doesn’t know what his master is doing. I have called you friends, because I have made known to you everything I have heard from my Father. John 15:13-15 CSB

Who needs to hear this?